From blind dates to chance meetings in the classroom, Auburn alums tell how they found love and romance on the Plains.
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Rainy days on the Councourse call for sharing an umbrella. (From the 1977 Glomerata).
The legend goes that if students kiss their significant other beside the Lathe at midnight—and its wheel does not move—they have been faithful to each other. How many marriages have been determined by this relic cannot be determined, but the myth’s longevity suggests there is some truth behind it.
For countless generations of Auburn students, though, it’s one of just many ways to show affection for one another. From engagements on the Samford lawn to joint lemonades at Toomer’s Corner, or risking a poor love life by stepping on the Auburn Seal, there’s no shortage of ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day on the Plains.
Jeanne Y. Dozier (Youngblood) ’69
I met my husband [Jerry Dozier ‘68] at Auburn in the winter quarter of 1967. Back then we were required to have six quarters of PE. No one wanted to do an outdoor PE during winter quarter, so I opted for social dance, which was an indoor activity. I walked on a very rainy and dreary day for my first day of class, and when I got there the place was already full of people. I looked out, and I thought, ‘Oh boy.’ Over all of those heads were these two male heads sticking up. I looked at the two guys and I thought, ‘Hmm, I like that one.’ He is the guy that I wound up marrying. He asked me to dance. We only saw each other in the social dance class in that entire quarter, but right before finals, he finally asked me out, and that was it. We dated and then got engaged.
Cameron R. Bottger ’11
I met my wife Morgan in the Haley Center. She just happened to sit in front of me in English class, and now almost 14 years later we share our last names. I couldn’t imagine it any other way.
Terrie Duke (Farrell) ’82
I met my husband Jim Duke Jr. ’75 on a blind date to the 1974 Auburn vs. Albany game. A friend of mine set up the date. We were married for 43 years and have four children now. That’s one that I’ll always remember.
Mitchell C. Wilson ’20
I have a girlfriend I met at Auburn, and she helped me mature. She is the best thing in my life, and I intend to marry that girl even though I’m still young. She is the best experience I have had at Auburn. I’m very thankful that I attended Auburn because I never would have met her otherwise.
Do you have your own Auburn love story?
Clay Miller ’14
I met my wife Ashley ’14 at Auburn. We got married while I was still a student, [and] we were both in the 2014 graduating class. We’ve been happily married for 10 years now.
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Clay Miller ’14 and Ashley Selby Miller ’14 outside Samford Hall.
Rebecca “Becky” M. Evans (McClendon) ’64
It was during my sophomore year that I met my future husband, William Evans ’66. We met at a fraternity party—I was dancing with somebody else, and when the music stopped, he was standing right beside me. He introduced himself and asked me for a date in the same breath. We got married in September before my junior year.
Wyman A. Hamilton ’03
I met my wife when I was a senior. She was a freshman, and she also ran cross country and track at Auburn. We dated in her freshman year for a while, and we stayed real close. Once I graduated, we stayed in touch. We stayed good friends, and when she got a bit close to graduation, we started dating again and got married right after she graduated. We have been married ever since and have three beautiful girls.
I met my wife [Hazel Bateman ‘64] there, and that’s one of the greatest things that has ever happened. I rodeoed back in those days, and she and I met at a horse show in the area. She passed away last year, but we were married for 50 years. She was an Auburn graduate, and our daughter and son went there.
G. “Bay” Haas ’63
I met the love of my life there. We have been married for 57 years, and we were together for 60 years, so I was very blessed. She was incredible. That was the most important thing that happened to me. Most of the credit would go to my wife [Charlotte Haas ’63] because she changed and helped me.
Travis “Tre” Connell Lee ’96
I met my wife [Jakierra Lee ‘98] at Auburn. She had a child before she came to school, and I was the local babysitter. I proposed to her in college, but we didn’t make it; she broke up with me. I had to mature a little bit. I grew up, and we got back together. We’ve been married now for ten years.
Michael “Mike” J. Cibulsky ’07
My wife [Courtney Cibulsky ‘06] is also an Auburn graduate. It was definitely the most valuable thing I took from Auburn. We met first at the apartment complex where I lived. We knew each other for a while, but we didn’t start dating until after we graduated. We’ve been together for nine years.
Dorothy “Dot” Dulion (Hurst) ’41
Before they had the dormitories, I was living in a boarding house. The girls served meals to some of the boys that lived in apartments around there. My future husband [William Dullion ’40] ate his meals in the same dining room I did, and that’s how we met. We went to the movies for our first date.
Jeanine Evelyn Williams (Grimes) ’06
I met my husband [Travis Williams ’05] at one of those tables in front of Haley Center, and he brought me back to the same table to propose. We eventually moved back to Auburn with our three daughters, so that he could coach football at our alma mater.
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Jeanine Williams and her husband, former Auburn Football co-defensive coordinator Travis Williams ‘05, with their three daughters.
Lina Cui ’08
I met my husband [Tong Liu ‘11] in Auburn. After several months, we began to be familiar with each other. After one year, we got married in the Auburn church.
I had a history class in Samford Hall, and they put us in alphabetical order. I had a young lady behind me whose last name was Self [Annetta Self Riley ‘66], and my last name is Riley. We got to talking and lo and behold, I wound up marrying her.
Carolyn Holt (Claybrook) ’71
I met my husband [William Holt ‘69] when I was a freshman on a blind date in the fall quarter. They had junior RAs that lived in the freshmen dorms. He’s from Florence, and he was friends with our RA from Florence. He called her up and said he’s getting an award and needs a date. She asked if I was free, and that’s how we met—on a blind date.
Dewey H. Jordan Jr. ’66
There was a young lady that was going out with a friend of mine. I was over there one night and he and his girlfriend were there in the room. I was just sitting there by myself and he said to his girl, Sandy, “Why don’t you call over there to the dorm and see if anybody wants to come over here?” She said to us, “I know just who I’m going to call.” She called over to the dorm, and it was a girl that was in pharmacy school. They talked her into coming over to the greenhouse. I called her up two weeks later and said, “Would you like to go out with me again?” She said, “I certainly would.” That’s how I met my wife [Alice Jordan ‘65]. We have been married for 58 years.
Sara Longshore McDonald ’58
My husband [William McDonald Jr. ‘58] graduated from Auburn in 1958. We met in high school, and we decided to go to Auburn together since we had been dating since high school. We’ve known each other for a long, long time. We’ve been married for 59 years.
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Auburn students dance the night away. (From the 1978 Glomerata).
Robert M. Vetzel ’64
That’s where I met my wife Evelyn. She was an Evergreen, Alabama girl. My roommate’s girlfriend told him about this girl who wanted to go to the military ball. He got her number, and I called her up. That was our first date. Subsequently, that night we got in and the guys were all sitting around. I took my t-shirt off, and I had blotches all over me. They took me to the infirmary, and I had the measles. Well, there I was, stashed away in the infirmary for three or four days with measles, and then she would go to Toomer’s Corner and get me cheeseburgers and bring them over to the infirmary. It’s kind of a cute story. That’s how our romance started, and we’ve been married about 62 years. We have three children and eight grandchildren.
Thomas “Tom” W. Clark Jr. ’74
For me, Auburn is home. I met my wife Karen there on an accidental blind date. I went to an apartment to pick up one girl for a date, but she was not there. My future wife was, and the rest is history.
Molly R. Justice (Newton) ’14
When I met my husband [Andrew Justice ‘13], I was engaged to a man from Georgia, but when he and I met, we hit it off. I attended events around town with mutual friends, and we both knew immediately we were meant to be together. We were married within a year.
Ruth Bea Abrahams (Yusckat) ’12
I met my husband [Joel Abrahams ‘11] there. We were friends for about two years, and then he started to talk to me more. I remember when we were both going to get our free tickets to the basketball game, we had to go to one spot right before the game started. I needed to go back to my apartment to change, which was really close to campus, so we walked back together. Some of my friends were at a bar, so we walked over there, and I just remember that particular instance being the day that I was like, “Oh, well, he is not so bad. I could maybe spend some time with him.” It was not planned. We hung out for a little while, walked around, and we watched the game together, which was fun. He asked me out a couple of months later. We had some good times in Auburn. I married him after he got a job in Oklahoma City, and I was able to transfer to the Air Force base there. We now have three children.
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Ruth Abrahams ’12, husband Joel Abrahams ’11 and their three children.
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